Start-up-options for how we want to aproach our kingdom?

So there are different players that want to aproach their kingdom in different ways - not only regarding the status of their nobles and if they have serfs or not, but also regarding building. Some build a rather big city/some want to build one big castle... (i wonder who that might be :D)

So how about we would be able to set certain options that determine certain aspects of our playthrough at the beginning?

Like Questions: How is your king supposed to rule, how shall your people live, i dont know these are just ideas. But it really bothers me that i want my peole to live toghether in one big castle and they all want to get their own houses.... i think you get what i am after....

Not sure if this is intended though and we have to live with the consequences of not fullfilling their wants and try to make them happy another way then... would like to get the general idea/direction of you killabi.

Edit: So regarding the background of the game (we are a kontra that tries to build a sucessful kingdom) it would actually make sense for me if we would be able to have some more say-so in which direction we want to develope.